31.3.09

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Naivete in art is like zero in a number; its importance depends on the figure united with .

The word of "naivete" is from western culture and its meaning is simple or pure.

Reaching for the Stars' may sound a little naive, but it is a thought in which I passionately believe; and maybe the world could use a little more naivete of that kind.

Anniversary

I woke early this morning.

Today is the I first met him anniversary .

8 years has passed away since we met.

I could get as far away from Tianjin as possible.

Then I met him, the boy in university .

Well, that did happen.

Together, I knew we were going places.

He and I had found our way out.

Friend

Proverbs Cancerning Friend and Friendship

Friendship is almost always the union of a part of one mind with a part of another;people are friends in spots.

Friendship is like a plant of slow growth.

A man knows his companion in a long journey and a little inn.

It is well that there is no one without a fault,for he would not have a friend in the world .

It is only the greathearted who can be true friends;the mean and the cowardly can never know what true friendship is.

Most men's friendships are too inarticulate.

No man can be happy without a friend,nor be sure of his friend till he is unhappy.

Nothing makes the earth seem to spacious as to have friends at a distance;they make the latitudes and longitudes.

Of our mixed life two quests are given control: food for the body,friendship for the soul.

Old friends and old wine are best.

The best that we find in our travel is an honest friend.He is a fortunate voyager who finds many.

The more we love our friends,the less we flatter them.

The true friendship seeks to give,not take;to help,not to be helped;to minister,not to be ministered unto.

To prepare a friend,three things are required : to honour him present,praise him absent,and assist him in his necessarities.

Choose thy friends like thy books,few but choice.

My friend is not perfect---nor am I ---and so we suit each other admirably.

The friendship of a gentleman is insipid as water.

30.3.09

Nothing can abash him.

If I had not known before that you were trying somehow to abash me I should know it now.

The entire metropolitan center possessed a high and mighty air calculated to overawe and abash the common applicant.


They laughed at order and at law, but the frown of power dejected, and the eye of wisdom abashed them.


Brideshead Revisited
If you asked me now who I am, the only answer I could give with any certainty would be my name, Charles Ryder. For the rest, my loves, my hates, down even to my deepest desires, I can no longer say whether these emotions are my own or stolen from those I once so desperately wished to be. On second thoughts, one emotion remains my own, alone among the borrowed and the second-hand, as pure as that faith from which I am still in flight.

28.3.09

A man who use bad language will only abase himself.

Insomnolence
A troubled night of insomnolence. I'm sorry I was cross on last night.

27.3.09

Marley & Me 2008

Simple joy of walking side by side with your buddy out in the fresh air.
Spending some quiet time just you and your very best friend.

Is that good luck? Is that bad luck?
I think-- I think it's good luck.
How did I get you?
Honestly. How did I-- How did I get that lucky?


You're part of the plan. My plan. Step one: Meet an incredibly sweet, smart, sexy man.Done. Step two?Marry you instead.And step three--It's easy.Be gentle. Move someplace warmer.

*Shiny, happy people laughing*
*Meet me in the crowd*
*People, people*
*Throw your love around*
*Love me, love me*
*Take it into town*
*Happy, happy*
*Put it in the ground*
*Where the flowers grow*
*Gold and silver shine*
*Shiny, happy people holding hands*
*Shiny, happy people*

What I do know is that I have a tendency to surprise myself.


*One love*
*Let's get together and*
*Feel all right*
*The children cryin'*
*Sayin' give thanks and praise*
*Feel all right*
*And feel all right*
*Let them all pass all their*
*Dirty remarks*
*There is one question*
*To save his own beliefs*
*One love*

*We're rockin' the suburbs*
*Around the block just one more time*
*We're rockin' the suburbs*
*We part the shades and face some facts*
*They got better looking fescue*


I'm just trying to remember us from before.
You mean those, younger-
Yeah. Sexier, better-looking people?
Yeah. I remember them. I remember them vaguely.
I miss them.
Mmm. They're here.
They're here. They're just really tired.

Nobody tells you how much you have to give up.
I feel like they do tell you, but you don't listen 'or you think, "Ah, they're just miserable."
I've given up so much of what made me who I am.
But I can't say that because--
I'm a very bad person if I say that.
But I feel it. I really do.
I feel it sometimes. I just-- I just want you to know that.
I do know that. And you can say it. I say it.
But I did make a choice.
I made a choice, and even if it's harder than I thought...
I don't regret it.
I am very sure.
''Cause it kinda has like a "there's no place like home" feeling to it.
I just think these things are gonna happen and we're gonna get through them.
And we'll just do it together. Together.
Getting rid of Marley is not gonna fix anything. No.
And getting rid of you isn't gonna fix anything either.

*Happiness more or less*
*It's just a change in me Something in my liberty*
*Oh, my, my*
*Happiness, coming and going*
*I watch you look at me Watch my fever growing*
*I know just where I am*
*Well, I'm a lucky man*
*With fire in my hands*

What I'm trying to say is our life is here and I'm okay with that.
Our life is wherever we are. That's it.

*Walking down*
*By the river*
*Water running*
*Through my knees*
*Oh, mighty river*
*I would love to be like you*

Are you happy?
I mean, none of this was part of the plan.
No. No, it wasn't part of the plan.
But it's so much better.
I'm just sort of done making plans.

doesn't care if you're rich or poor, clever or dull, smart or dumb.
Give 'em your heart and he'll give you his.
How many people can you say that about?
How many people can make you feel rare and pure and special?
How many people can make you feel... extraordinary?

Today I am feeling A1.

Do not abandon yourself to despair.
Hope never abandons you , you abandon it.
Don't abandon one's beliefs or allegiances.
We should not abandon ourselves to pleasures.
Abandon harsh words, and speak pleasantly instead.
Siamese Banana
We'll split it 50/50.